smile & love ur life =))

The Gurl
yanting aka ngaingai
♥ to play around
♥ to travel
♥ to nap
♥ to just daydream about the future
My Wishlist
taiwan trip
a job she loves
an office sleek bag
PSP slim
someone
lets go to the ZoO
a veggie to match my carrot
updated @ 5th December 07

Connections
♥ Ning
♥ Adeline
♥ Xuan
♥ Jessica
♥ Jeserene
♥ Lyly
♥ Cindy
♥ Jieqi
♥ Sherlyn
♥ Kevin
♥ April
♥ Cindy


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The Applause
Designer: Siew Min
Basecodes: theBENDANs
Inspirations: Sandra Agnes Maggie Vanessa
Materials: x x x
Image Edits: Paint Tools


Saturday, April 21, 2007

One analogy to share from an e-mail i just received..which i thought was really meaningful and put me to deeper thoughts..

A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other abandoned. Only one child played on the abandoned track, the rest on the operational track. The train came, and you were just beside the track interchange. You could make the train change its course to the abandoned track and saved most of the kids…

However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the abandoned track would be sacrificed.

Or would you rather let the train go in its way?

Let’s take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make.

Most people might choose to divert the train, and sacrifice only one child. You might think the same way too. I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally.

But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the abandoned track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant and how knowledgeable the minorities are.

The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case, he was sacrificed; no one would shed a tear for him.

A person replied to the question answered he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train’s sirens.

If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe.

If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all the passengers onboard at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

“Remember that what’s right isn’t always popular…and what’s popular isn’t always right.”

10:09:00 PM
everyday is a brand new day


Sunday, April 15, 2007

Yesterday always seem so beautiful than today. Human never satisfied with what they had and never cherish with what they have in the present state. Perhaps regret and holding on to the love in one's heart and distance is the price to pay for, for pining high hope when one refused to see that not every grass is greener on the other side.


12:13:00 PM
everyday is a brand new day


Saturday, April 07, 2007

I know that u know that we know that you know that i know..

a simple sentence which makes things so complicated.. life is never a bed of roses.. if it's meant to be, it will be.. if not.. no point wasting time on it.. i don't understand why do people only learn to treasure things when they lose it.. y didn't they make an effort when they still stand a chance.. it all voice down to EGO.. EGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGOEGO..

12:52:00 AM
everyday is a brand new day





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